Gift Ideas Based on Personality
Interests tell you what someone likes. Personality hints at how they like to receive it. Two people who both love cooking can want very different gifts: one wants a clever gadget they've never seen, the other wants the best version of the pan they already use.
This page explains the three traits we use and points you to guides for each. Everything here describes tendencies, not rules. People vary, and a trait is one clue among several.
The three traits, in plain language
Imaginative or familiar (openness)
How much does the person enjoy new ideas, unusual things and trying something different?
- Higher: more likely to enjoy something unexpected, creative or from a new category. A novelty that is also well made tends to land better than a safe repeat.
- Lower: more likely to appreciate the familiar, classic and simple. A better version of something they already use is often a safe choice.
Outgoing or reserved (extraversion)
Where do they get their energy: in company or on their own?
- Outgoing: often enjoy gifts with a story, something to share or something that makes an evening more fun. See gifts for extroverts.
- Reserved: often enjoy gifts that improve time on their own and ask nothing of an audience. See gifts for introverts.
Organised or easygoing (conscientiousness)
How much do they plan, track and finish things?
- More organised: often value quality, reliability and a gift that does its job. Craftsmanship matters.
- More easygoing: often enjoy gifts that don't come with homework. An item that needs setup or upkeep may sit unused.
We do not build gift stories around low conscientiousness or low extraversion as negatives. A reserved or easygoing person is not lacking anything, and the ideas we suggest should never read as a verdict on them.
Guides by trait
| Guide | Best for | |---|---| | Gifts for introverts | Quiet, private people who recharge alone | | Gifts for extroverts | Sociable, energetic people who love company |
What the research says, trait by trait
Two other Big Five traits are not used by the quiz. Our pages explain why: agreeableness and neuroticism.
Why three traits, and not a "type"?
Many gift guides sort people into one of 16 personality types from the Myers-Briggs system, or one of nine Enneagram types. We don't. A 1993 review of the research on the Myers-Briggs test questions how consistent its results are and whether the 16 types are distinct categories. The Big Five model, which our three traits come from, is a widely used framework in academic personality research. We use only three of its five dimensions because those are the ones we can connect to gift choices sensibly. The full explanation, with sources and what is still uncertain, is in How Personality Shapes the Gifts People Love.
Not sure which describes them?
You don't have to decide. The gift finder quiz asks six short questions about how the person behaves, then works out the description for you. You can also add up to three interests and a budget, which is where personality-based ideas become specific.
If you're earlier in the process, How to Choose a Gift for Anyone walks through the whole decision step by step.
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